Is it them or you? Or is it: we?

We all struggle, we all suffer, we all search for love and the one person that will accept us, just as we are. Maybe we are still children who are searching for a parent to come and take care of us, to hug us, to solace us, to make us feel we are in secure. Maybe we just have to grow up and be that person ourselves...

There may be struggles in every relationship, broken hearts and sadness, but we can handle all of them.

Just take a look at yourself, when the emotions are overwhelming, just look, feel and breathe. Don't judge the other person and don't judge yourself. Just breathe. Ask yourself: Who am I really? What is happening right now?

You might think you have a right for the "One", you might have been hurted by someone you love, you might be angry at your parents, you might don't like other people...but it's all in you! YOU create your life. No one else! The people around you just reflect how it looks inside of you.

If you like it or not doesn't matter.

What matters is you and what you think, feel, tell and do. Believe it!

So always give your best. Be nice. To yourself and to other ones - they are you!

It's not always the other people, sometimes it is the situation.

Take responsibility. Accept, walk away, change the situation or let go. Not always easy but always possible!

You can handle this!

You only have to decide to!

 

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In this holographic world, everyone and everything is a mirror, and you are always seeing yourself and talking to yourself. If you choose, you can now look at what emotionally affects you as an alarm, a clue to uncover your shadow, a catalyst for growth that gives you an opportunity to reclaim a hidden aspect of yourself. What aspects are reflecting back to you?" ~ Debbie Ford

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Psychologists Say :
1) If A Person Laughs Too Much, Even At Stupid
Things, He Is Lonely Deep Inside.
2) If A Person Sleeps A Lot, He Is Sad.
3) If A Person Speaks Less, But Speaks Fast, He
Keeps Secrets.
4) If Some One Can't Cry,He Is Weak.
5) If Some One Eats In An Abnormal Manner, He
Is
Tensed.
6) If Some One Cries On Little Things, He Is
Innocent & Soft-Hearted.
7) If Some One Becomes Angry Over Silly Or
Petty
(Small) Things, It Means He Needs Love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sweetest Version of this song, ever: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=9A5GaS7awS0